8 Things That Every Woman Should Steer Clear Of

Being with an attached or married man. Take it from the many millions of women who continue to bark up the wrong tree – It is the exception, not the rule for it to work out for The Other Woman. You might think his story or your situation is unique –...

Ten Signs That He’s Mr Wrong

1. You don’t introduce him to your nearest and dearest because you know they’ll hate him. 2. You only like him when he’s naked and having sex with you. As soon as he starts talking, you either try to silence him with sex or push him out the door. 3....

Mixing Money & Men

Years ago I descended to the depths of fluff brained woman when I dated a guy and ended up loaning him money that I never saw again. More than six years later, despite being very loved up with the boyf and the arrival of my new bambino, it still grates that I got...

9 Tips For Complimenting A Woman

After hearing a story of how a guy approached a woman and complimented her on her “hourglass figure” and ended up with a very pissed off woman snapping at him and slapping him across the face, I wanted to share some suggestions for complimenting women with...

Tips for Sending Dirty Emails To Your Lover

Don’t do it on work email! Some companies have very strict email policies but you may also get the content put through a filter which could be very embarrassing if it gets flagged up. Only send these emails to a trusted lover. Trust me when I say that if you are...

Breaking Up With No Reason

Right now somebody somewhere is being broken up with. It’s horrible, it hurts, it can be devastating, and it can feel like a kick in the nuts, even if you’re not in possession of a penis and two testicles! One of the difficult things about break-ups is the...

Should Women Just Ask Guys Out?

I can hand on heart say that I have never asked a guy out and you know what, there are more women out there like me, than ones that aren’t. Some of us may make noises about being independent women (click, click those fingers with me), you don’t own me, I...

20 Signs That You’re Dating the Wrong Guy

Here are just some of the signs that let you know that it’s time to make a run for it! 1. You act differently around him and it’s not in a positive way. 2. You spend a lot of your time feel edgy, upset, confused, uncertain, insecure – pretty much...

Holding The Sex In the Early stages of Dating

I know a lot of people who have sex whilst dating. While it’s different strokes for different folks, much of what I hear from people who do is that it complicates and sometimes ruins things. If it’s worked for you, great, don’t bother to read this....

So What is Commitment-Phobia?

Whilst writing my book The Mr Unavailable Guide (working title), I am writing a lot about the issue of commitment-phobia and it’s stranglehold on relationships. I come across so many women (and men) who engage in such self-destructive behaviour and who clearly...
The No Contact Rule

The No Contact Rule

The No Contact Rule is the essential guide to breaking up when you can’t or won’t let go, or you’re tired of being treated like a backup plan. When a relationship ends, your interest isn’t returned, or you’re dealing with a commitment-shy...