‘Average’ Men Turned Upside Down

I believe that you can pretty much divide men into three camps: Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Mr Unavailables, but many women talk about ‘average men’, usually with disdain. Average by its very nature implies middle of the road, nothing special and to many...

From The Other Woman to Happiness

If someone had suggested that I would ever be The Other Woman (OW), I would have laughed them out of town and told them to F off, but somehow I found myself taking up the role with gusto for 18 months. It was without a doubt the most foolish, damaging thing that I...

8 Dating Mistakes to Avoid

Verbal Diarrhea Syndrome I’m not asking you to pretend to be somebody that you’re not, but many people don’t seem to know what they should or shouldn’t talk about on early dates, especially the first date. Many daters complain that they have...

Playing Games in Relationships

Is there a place for games in relationships? Yes if it’s for sex or because you actually don’t want the relationship to succeed. If you actually do want the relationship to work, game-playing will just ensure that you sabotage it. People tend to play games...

Be a Happy Single

If you really are going to be a happy single, you have to stop treating being single as the annoying time that you pass between relationships, and embrace it. Rather than focusing on what you lack, focus on what you have: You. One of the dangers of treating singledom...

Things that Annoy Women in The Bedroom

No foreplay, teenage foreplay routines, repeated tries for anal sex, licking us like a cat licks milk, and expecting us to ‘taste’ ourselves are just some of the things that annoy women in the bedroom. No glove, no love. It is beyond irritating when...

How To Cope When Your Boyfriend is ‘Separated’

Things happen and not all marriages work out. Hardly a fact that’s escaped any of us. It’s not a bad thing to be separated but there should be major red flags flying if the guy is habitually separated and shows no signs of actually getting a divorced....

The Modern Guide to Dating

Over at Mercurynews.com, Mark de la Viña has come up with some termininology that describes the different types of dates that we go on in the crazy world of dating. I have selected a few of the funniest: The Shame Date Perhaps you’re nervous because it’s...