http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/the-players-boot-camps-camp-rejection/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:33:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/the-players-boot-camps-camp-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-243917 jsgdk Wed, 07 Oct 2009 07:43:56 +0000 #comment-243917 The 3sec rule is an old principle used to avoid "analysis paralysis" or getting killed by your inner dialogue (most men think too much especially around women). Most of the guys i know in the seduction community didnt get into it because the wanted to have sex with alot of girls, They got into it because whatever they did they couldnt get any interest from girls they liked. Social conditioning was a big problem for me, I had a totally wrong idea of what women wanted and also of what I wanted myself it turned out, same problem I see with many guys. My girlfriend knows im into this stuff tho its more about the whole social-dynamic thing by now. She said once that she liked knowing that i was with her because I loved her, not because i dont have options. Many guys should stop whining and pick up a book or something (none of that hype stuff in men's magazines tho) since whining is not very masculine and doing something about you life definately is. Just a few thoughts from a "player" in his 30s. I came here looking for women's attitudes towars this stuff, Interesting forum. The 3sec rule is an old principle used to avoid “analysis paralysis” or getting killed by your inner dialogue (most men think too much especially around women). Most of the guys i know in the seduction community didnt get into it because the wanted to have sex with alot of girls, They got into it because whatever they did they couldnt get any interest from girls they liked. Social conditioning was a big problem for me, I had a totally wrong idea of what women wanted and also of what I wanted myself it turned out, same problem I see with many guys. My girlfriend knows im into this stuff tho its more about the whole social-dynamic thing by now. She said once that she liked knowing that i was with her because I loved her, not because i dont have options. Many guys should stop whining and pick up a book or something (none of that hype stuff in men’s magazines tho) since whining is not very masculine and doing something about you life definately is. Just a few thoughts from a “player” in his 30s.
I came here looking for women’s attitudes towars this stuff, Interesting forum.

]]> http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/the-players-boot-camps-camp-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-243904 jsgdk Wed, 07 Oct 2009 06:44:26 +0000 #comment-243904 There are many ways to go about things like that. My girlfriend wouldnt have given me the time of day if I hadnt swept her off her feet before she realized she was "way out of my league"(lol). Some years back I read a few books and some online material and it did change my outlook on life, What alot of these guys simply needs is what theyre dad didnt teach em, common problem today :(. Overcoming your fear is good. If a guy is afraid to talk to women he should force himself to approach alot of women and talk to them imo. To make bets about getting in to women's pants is concidered distasteful in many "pick-up" communities. There are many ways to go about things like that. My girlfriend wouldnt have given me the time of day if I hadnt swept her off her feet before she realized she was “way out of my league”(lol). Some years back I read a few books and some online material and it did change my outlook on life, What alot of these guys simply needs is what theyre dad didnt teach em, common problem today .
Overcoming your fear is good. If a guy is afraid to talk to women he should force himself to approach alot of women and talk to them imo. To make bets about getting in to women’s pants is concidered distasteful in many “pick-up” communities.

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