The Spit or Swallow Debate
September 27, 2005 by NML
Oral sex..more specifically blowjobs! Do you spit or swallow? Isn’t that really the question most guys want to know? Is it not also the question most women wonder whether or not there is a correct answer to?
If you do swallow does that make you a slut? Does it make you a “bad girl”? The answer is no. I can tell you that it actually turns a guy on. With that said, why is this topic of ultimate debate?
The answer is easy - it’s the taboo topic.
I’ve always found it interesting that many couples don’t really talk about oral sex before it happens; specifically blow jobs. Either the woman is too shy to bring it up or the guy just hopes to catch her with a creamy surprise. Truth is when it comes to giving an awesome blowjob it’s not really about the spit or swallow dilemma it’s about communication.
However, let’s take a few moments to discuss both options. Of course first we will explore the road less traveled - which is swallowing. (my personal preference)
Why do men prefer a girl who swallows over one who spits? That’s easy! Spitting can often be viewed as being rejected or disapproved of. Honestly, let’s think about it. If a guy went down on you but pulled away the moment they tasted your vagina juices - how would you feel? Mmmmhmmm exactly!
If you’ve never swallowed before there are three things that you will want to take into consideration:
1. Has he been tested for HIV or STDs? If not, I wouldn’t give him a blow job without a condom. This is also a trust issue if this is only a one night stand. Play it smart ladies! Don’t take chances!
2. Communicate before! If you absolutely do not wish to swallow - speak up or you are liable to get a spurting surprise, and nothing is worse than not expecting it! When you know it’s cumming you can be ready to down it like a pro.
3. Diet affects taste! This is not a myth. If at first the taste is bitter - explore with cinnamon, fruit juices (pineapple is my favorite), parsley or even wheatgrass.
If it’s your first time swallowing ask your fellow to signal to you when he’s about to cum. He can do this with a squeeze of the hand or a cue that you both develop together; at least until you are familiar with the natural signs that his body gives you. This will help you prepare yourself and be ready.
I realize that not all women will swallow, however if you are a spitter do it tactfully. Gagging or immediately running to the bathroom to spit and brush your teeth is a major turn-off.
How can you spit like a lady? Gather a “spit-kit” have it near the bed. It should contain a towel, a cup, and a damp washcloth that you can use to wipe your mouth. There is nothing like ruining the moment with a get-up and run reaction.
Should a woman spit or swallow?
Contributed by Risque Smile
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there should be no questionas to either spit or swallow a real partner would “Snowball” with the fellatrix.