In an effort to try to make things a lot easier, I have amended the contact page and removed the contact form. Instead there are email addresses for you to direct your query to.
With regard to advice requests, as I mentioned on the contact page, I get hundreds of emails each month and it is getting increasing hard to stay on top of these and there is a large backlog of emails which I am gradually making my way through. I do try to reply to every single email but as this is free, there has to be limitations to this to ensure that this backlog can be minimised and fair service is given to readers because it does impact on 1) how much book writing I can do and 2) how much posting I can do.
I’m not going to limit the size of your emails but it will really help if you don’t send extremely long emails.
I only reply once and can’t bounce emails back and forth. If you reply again, please note that it will enter the queue of emails.
If you have a problem that requires ongoing support, you need to use the consultation service. More details on the contact page.
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I have only just come across this website and have read with horror every word on the EUM; I bought the book last night and have already read almost all of it. I now cannot believe (for an intelligent educated and well -read woman) that of the all the books I have read in all my adult years, it only occured to me 2 days ago (after what seems like a lifetime of putting up with c*ap from men) to find some reading material to help me understand why ‘my (chosen) man’ never commits to me and why I never, ever get ‘my man’.
I am nearly fifty years old, and now (after just two days of reading on this site and the e-book) I think I am beginning to understand. Perhaps understanding that largely ‘I only have myself to blame’ is the hardest thing I am now going to have to deal with. I had no idea in the world up until now that I had issues with self-esteem or self-worth. I thought that was all nampy-pampy claptrap (and people who talk about “how their childood has affected their adult relationships” I thought were just navel-gazing bores). I am astounded that what I have read about the Fallback Girl and the Unavailable Man is like (for the most part) reading my life story. I had no idea… I am currently in a “we are not talking” phase with my EUM. (who lives with his girlfriend – i am actually the OW – but now realise that she is not my problem; he is! And he willl be hers too!). I am now thinking, since we are in a “he is not talking to me anymore period because I had the nerve mention his girlf.” that this might be a good time to make him commit to his current “silent act” for good!! My problem then is how do I really appreciate that I actually do not have any self-worth and how do I fix it??
Nikki