Comments on: When He’s Not in the Mood for Sex http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/when-he%e2%80%99s-not-in-the-mood-for-sex/ Getting you savvy, smart, sussed and sexy about dating and relationships. Fri, 09 Jan 2009 21:31:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Alison http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/when-he%e2%80%99s-not-in-the-mood-for-sex/#comment-89715 Alison Fri, 30 Nov 2007 19:44:11 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/when-he%e2%80%99s-not-in-the-mood-for-sex/#comment-89715 Soooooo true. I was stuck in a relationship with a guy with a low libido, and I had no idea what was wrong, but the constant rejection was so hurtful, my self esteem didn't recover for years. At first I didn't react terribly well to the frustration, though I never blamed or accused him, and then I got to expecting it which helped me not react too much. One single time in the relationship, I said no. He kicked up a major fuss, and I did have to point out that he had had no sympathy for MY hurt feelings... Soooooo true. I was stuck in a relationship with a guy with a low libido, and I had no idea what was wrong, but the constant rejection was so hurtful, my self esteem didn’t recover for years. At first I didn’t react terribly well to the frustration, though I never blamed or accused him, and then I got to expecting it which helped me not react too much.

One single time in the relationship, I said no. He kicked up a major fuss, and I did have to point out that he had had no sympathy for MY hurt feelings…

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