Comments on: You Make Your Own Relationship Luck http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:03:58 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: You Make Your Own Relationship Luck « American Gift Club’s Weblog http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-145906 You Make Your Own Relationship Luck « American Gift Club’s Weblog Thu, 03 Apr 2008 07:22:58 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-145906 [...] Read Full News [...] [...] Read Full News [...]

]]> By: Conscious Relationships http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-130243 Conscious Relationships Fri, 22 Feb 2008 10:17:10 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-130243 [...] had more bad dates and dodgy boyfriends than I care to remember, I used to think that I was having an extended period bad luck where I seemed to mysteriously attract men that were unworthy of my time and energy. A number of [...] [...] had more bad dates and dodgy boyfriends than I care to remember, I used to think that I was having an extended period bad luck where I seemed to mysteriously attract men that were unworthy of my time and energy. A number of [...]

]]> By: Cynthia http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-122237 Cynthia Sat, 09 Feb 2008 03:50:09 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-122237 I just discovered by name on the internet(by googleing my name) in relation to a comment I thought was to just be a part of the website. I love your work, I'm sorry I don't feel safe to post anymore though. *Editors Note I have sent you an email regarding your comment. All comments on this site are published with information that you input. Hence when it asks for your name, you can write 'Cynthia';'Cynth';'C';'Girl from London' or whatever you want to write. I have amended your comment and removed your surname and despite initial plans to remove your comment, I felt it better to publicly respond to your assertion. There has now been a note added below the commenting field. I am more than happy to edit people's comments on request (as I have done in the past for people's errors) but I want it noted on public record that I do NOT take people's personal information and publish it! I have no idea what the true names are of the bulk of readers of this site and that is absolutely fine. I don't have the means to find out anyone's personal information and I implore readers to be careful about what information they put in about themselves! If you don't want your name to appear...Do NOT under any circumstances write it. I just discovered by name on the internet(by googleing my name) in relation to a comment I thought was to just be a part of the website. I love your work, I’m sorry I don’t feel safe to post anymore though.

*Editors Note

I have sent you an email regarding your comment. All comments on this site are published with information that you input. Hence when it asks for your name, you can write ‘Cynthia’;'Cynth’;'C’;'Girl from London’ or whatever you want to write. I have amended your comment and removed your surname and despite initial plans to remove your comment, I felt it better to publicly respond to your assertion.

There has now been a note added below the commenting field. I am more than happy to edit people’s comments on request (as I have done in the past for people’s errors) but I want it noted on public record that I do NOT take people’s personal information and publish it! I have no idea what the true names are of the bulk of readers of this site and that is absolutely fine. I don’t have the means to find out anyone’s personal information and I implore readers to be careful about what information they put in about themselves! If you don’t want your name to appear…Do NOT under any circumstances write it.

]]> By: Cynthia http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-90593 Cynthia Tue, 04 Dec 2007 18:29:22 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-90593 Thank you so much for your work. I have been struggling for nearly a year to get over or through or done with a relationship with a man who turned out to be a cross dresser among other things. Sounds crazy, but the hook has always been that he has seemed to be so truthful with his emotions and thoughts.The "blowing hot and cold" comment was tremendously enlightening. Thank you so much for your work. I have been struggling for nearly a year to get over or through or done with a relationship with a man who turned out to be a cross dresser among other things. Sounds crazy, but the hook has always been that he has seemed to be so truthful with his emotions and thoughts.The “blowing hot and cold” comment was tremendously enlightening.

]]> By: Rhea http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-82409 Rhea Wed, 14 Nov 2007 02:23:48 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-82409 Thanks NML, so many of us need to hear these words. God Bless Thanks NML, so many of us need to hear these words. God Bless

]]> By: MeToo http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-47439 MeToo Thu, 21 Jun 2007 15:57:49 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-47439 ive been searching and searching the net for some words of wisdom to help get me thru my situation, a 2 1/2 month relationship with an extremely emotionally unavailabe man...i keep trying to trick myself into thinking that he is enough, and he's not, and although it hurts I know I deserve more... THANK YOU for writing the words I need to hear... ive been searching and searching the net for some words of wisdom to help get me thru my situation, a 2 1/2 month relationship with an extremely emotionally unavailabe man…i keep trying to trick myself into thinking that he is enough, and he’s not, and although it hurts I know I deserve more…
THANK YOU for writing the words I need to hear…

]]> By: WhyMe http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-14233 WhyMe Mon, 05 Mar 2007 05:29:58 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-14233 I am sure that I will be returning to this part of the site to reread this article as I work through letting go of the bad relationship I just got out of. Thanks! I am sure that I will be returning to this part of the site to reread this article as I work through letting go of the bad relationship I just got out of. Thanks!

]]> By: Ananda http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-10406 Ananda Mon, 05 Feb 2007 03:15:35 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-10406 AMEN. AMEN.

]]> By: Fifi http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-9734 Fifi Mon, 29 Jan 2007 15:04:55 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-9734 Wow! how great is this article? I needed to read this. My situation is just like a lot of other women out there. I met this guy and we connected right away, it was great. I was happy to be with him and he with me until he suddenly started withdrawing and I immediately started feeling insecure and wondered what had gone wrong. Well, not long after feeling him withdrawing, i realized that there was something wrong so i tried talking to him but he managed to make the whole situation seem trivial. After about two months of struggling to hold on to the relationship, I let go of it. Well, last week i found out why he was acting strange-he got this woman he had claimed to be his ex pregnant. Yup, the man was two-timing. But i'll tell you what, i walked out of that situation with my head high. I didn't cause any drama, didn't make angry, frantic calls, i just simply let him go because i know what i am worth and he obviously doesn't know my value. Wow! how great is this article? I needed to read this. My situation is just like a lot of other women out there. I met this guy and we connected right away, it was great. I was happy to be with him and he with me until he suddenly started withdrawing and I immediately started feeling insecure and wondered what had gone wrong. Well, not long after feeling him withdrawing, i realized that there was something wrong so i tried talking to him but he managed to make the whole situation seem trivial. After about two months of struggling to hold on to the relationship, I let go of it. Well, last week i found out why he was acting strange-he got this woman he had claimed to be his ex pregnant. Yup, the man was two-timing. But i’ll tell you what, i walked out of that situation with my head high. I didn’t cause any drama, didn’t make angry, frantic calls, i just simply let him go because i know what i am worth and he obviously doesn’t know my value.

]]> By: T http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-8828 T Sat, 20 Jan 2007 16:05:33 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-8828 This is truly what I needed to read. I just ended a relationship with someone who was not emotionally available to me. I woke up and prayed to God to show me a sign as to whether or not I should try working things out--and I will take your blog as my slap upside the head from the Lord. THANK YOU!! This is truly what I needed to read. I just ended a relationship with someone who was not emotionally available to me. I woke up and prayed to God to show me a sign as to whether or not I should try working things out–and I will take your blog as my slap upside the head from the Lord. THANK YOU!!

]]> By: lonelymum http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-8565 lonelymum Wed, 17 Jan 2007 21:25:32 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-8565 It comes down to that old saying which applies to everything in your life..... there are two types of people, those who let life happen to them and those who make life happen for them. It is far far better to be the latter and be in control, but there are far to many of us who only learn this in our adulthood once we have been battered and bruised emotionally. It's a struggle to get there as I am finding out, but I am determined to gain control of my life, forever. You are so right, it's about taking responsibility for your past and moving on. It comes down to that old saying which applies to everything in your life….. there are two types of people, those who let life happen to them and those who make life happen for them. It is far far better to be the latter and be in control, but there are far to many of us who only learn this in our adulthood once we have been battered and bruised emotionally. It’s a struggle to get there as I am finding out, but I am determined to gain control of my life, forever. You are so right, it’s about taking responsibility for your past and moving on.

]]> By: unknowndiva http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-8517 unknowndiva Wed, 17 Jan 2007 15:06:40 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-8517 so so so so true....i've come the the realization recently as well in all of my relationships be they intimate or not that i have contributed greatly to the rise and fall of them all. it's definitely time for me to take responsibility for my actions and make things what i want and need them to be. thanks for the reality check!!! so so so so true….i’ve come the the realization recently as well in all of my relationships be they intimate or not that i have contributed greatly to the rise and fall of them all. it’s definitely time for me to take responsibility for my actions and make things what i want and need them to be.
thanks for the reality check!!!

]]> By: Tiffanie http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/comment-page-1/#comment-8450 Tiffanie Tue, 16 Jan 2007 22:33:38 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/you-make-your-own-relationship-luck/#comment-8450 Wow. I really needed to read this. Thanks. Wow. I really needed to read this. Thanks.

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