1. Be emotionally unavailable yourself – even if you don’t know it
2. Be secretly afraid of commitment – even if you make noises about wanting a relationship
3. Have very bendable standards that accommodate his dubious relationship habits – because this is what ‘unconditional love’ means
4. Be cynical about love – after all, don’t you secretly believe that all men hurt you in the end?
5. Decide to play the field and not get into anything serious – even though the moment he starts not being serious you’ll be wondering why he’s not more committed
6. Be completely oblivious to signs of his self absorbency and unwillingness to be emotionally available -even if he spells it out in black and white…
7. Have your relationship toolset at the ready for your next fixer upper project, after all, if you keep on putting the energy into this empty man and do your best to change him, he’ll come around eventually…or your efforts will benefit the next woman when he suddenly decides that he’s ready to be emotionally available…
8. Be insecure, with low self-esteem – because you know you’ll feel better if the right guy comes along…misery does love company and it’s better than being single…
9. Stick around even if he has multiple women on the go, has a girlfriend, is engaged or married – because if you stick around long enough, he’ll see how great you are and you will get to be #1.After all, people do buy the cow after drinking the milk for free…

 

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