Take responsibility for evolving your boundaries, not for other people’s behaviour

An argument of the shady that thrive on crossing boundaries is that their deeds are our fault because they wouldn’t have done what they did if we hadn’t neglected something, or if we were ‘stronger’, more assertive or whatever. Now, granted, in...

Were they ‘just trying to be nice’?

Being involved with someone who engages in inappropriate and abusive behaviour, such as gaslighting, harassment, coercive control, and verbal, physical or financial abuse, creates a great deal of self-doubt. After all, for this person to operate in our life, they’ve...