Getting Real About Recognising Inappropriate Relationship Behaviour: He Doesn’t Need To Cheat (or Beat) To Be An Assclown
In my last post I wrote about the key behaviours that assclowns rely on to mistreat you and manage the relationship on their terms including passive aggression, erasing the past by pressing The Reset Button, and deciding that ‘I’m not that bad’...
Am I Involved With an Assclown? How To Spot Someone Who Means You & the Relationship No Good
An assclown is someone that deliberately and consistently goes out of their way to treat you without love, care, trust and respect. They add little or no value to the relationship and the cost to you of being with him/her is often your self-esteem, your well-being,...
Why aren’t I attracted to the good/decent/nice guys?
I get so many emails lamenting the confusion of women knowing that they’re with a decent guy but feeling a lack of attraction for them. Let me tell you why this happens… The term ‘nice guy’ is a blanket description used by women as an excuse to...
Myth: There Are No Good Men to Date – Part One
I regularly receive emails that are along the lines of what Barbara, 41, recently sent me : “You are absolutely right in everything that you say about these men and the relationships that result but you don’t understand what it’s like. It feels like...
