Podcast Ep. 236: Let’s Stop Minimising Those Big Little Things

In this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, I delve into the topic of minimising ourselves and other people’s asks, expectations and behaviour. When we don’t prioritise ourselves and we also tend to rationalise other people’s...
There’s a Big Difference Between Interest and Commitment

There’s a Big Difference Between Interest and Commitment

A mistake I used to make in dating was assuming that if a guy expressed interest in me, he was: 1) Not in a relationship already 2) Over his ex 3) Interested in a relationship with me 4) We had a lot in common (I know, I know!) Then I assumed that if I were playing...

Why We Must Be A Priority & Never An Option

Do you ever start your day with good intentions to focus on the stuff that you need to do, only to find that because you decided to reply to emails first, most of the day has slipped through your fingers and you’re chasing your tail? Yep, it’s a very common...
Revisited: Are you on standby? Why you’re not Mister / Miss Last Minute Option

Revisited: Are you on standby? Why you’re not Mister / Miss Last Minute Option

Don’t forget that I’m on a ‘break’ until September so I will mostly be featuring some of yours and my favourite posts from the archives. ********** After I wrote about whether you’re ready to date again, there was a flurry of discussion...

Are You On Standby? Why You’re Not Mr or Miss Last-Minute Option

Over the past few days since I wrote about whether you’re ready to date again, there’s been a flurry of discussion in the comments about people who rely on making last-minute plans under the guise of being ‘spontaneous’ and who, when you try to...