Our Intimate Relationships Require Us To Commit To Showing Up

Without commitment, a relationship has no purpose or direction. It’s just floating, possibly with one person trying to row the relationship boat with one oar hoping the other will feel inspired to catch up and commit. Commitment is a decision made up of much smaller...
You’ve Got To Call It As You See It: Why you mustn’t fear judging a situation or actions

You’ve Got To Call It As You See It: Why you mustn’t fear judging a situation or actions

I have an ex who, in retrospect, only once I’d got as far away as possible from him did I truly acknowledge that I’d been in an abusive relationship. Long-time readers may recall that he’s the one who drove like a maniac, ranting in a jealous rage. One time, I...