Moving past ambiguous situations: It’s OK to take a step back when they say that they’re not interested

Moving past ambiguous situations: It’s OK to take a step back when they say that they’re not interested

When two people are romantically interested in each other, they make it known and it doesn’t turn into this long, drawn out, ambiguous rigamarole of wondering whether or not they’re interested. It’s because one or both parties are being ambiguous why...
Excerpt from The Dreamer & the Fantasy Relationship: Is Fantasising Ever Healthy?

Excerpt from The Dreamer & the Fantasy Relationship: Is Fantasising Ever Healthy?

Fantasies are useful for exploring ideas – a bit like a mental dummy run. They can enable you to tap into your creativity, examine who you are or ideas about what you want from yourself and your life in the future, sexual desires, and even to work through issues. Some...

If You’re Going To Argue or Tell Someone About Themselves, Don’t Do It By Text or Email

I have a few rules for myself that keep me out of a lot of trouble, even though some days my last nerve is being worn down and I want to let rip: Even though it’s felt like I have to tape my fingers together at times, I don’t reply in haste (or even at...
“If It Were Me, I’d….” When You’re Perplexed By People Not Acting As You Would

“If It Were Me, I’d….” When You’re Perplexed By People Not Acting As You Would

As soon as I hear the words “If it were me…” or “I’m the type of person that…” and they are explaining their frustration with a person, or even their rationale for making excuses for them, I internally say “UH OH.” It...
Tips For Avoiding Text, Internet & Other Lazy Communication Based Relationships

Tips For Avoiding Text, Internet & Other Lazy Communication Based Relationships

In this adapted excerpt from my latest ebook The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship , I share my tips for kicking the virtual relationship habit, which is when you’re too reliant on texts, instant messenger, email, Facebook, sexts et al and making loaves out...