Podcast Ep.59: Why Did We Break Up?–A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

Podcast Ep.59: Why Did We Break Up?–A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

It’s time for another episode of Why Did We Break Up?. Swept off her feet by her co-worker Andrew, when Zoe’s 23-year marriage ended abruptly, she moved in with him weeks later, not realising the extent of the gambling debt that he’d amassed. Over the next six years,...
Podcast Ep. 34: Charm & Disarm, What’s Your Money Story?, Single, WHAT?!

Podcast Ep. 34: Charm & Disarm, What’s Your Money Story?, Single, WHAT?!

It’s time for another episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions. In episode 34, I cover: Very charming people: We can all be charming at times, such as when we’re flirting, but this is very different to people who, when you think about what it is that stands out...
Are men really like rubber bands? The Bigger Picture (Part 3)

Are men really like rubber bands? The Bigger Picture (Part 3)

Over parts one and two of this mini series, I have been explaining why John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus’ theory that are all men are like rubber bands because they have an intimacy cycle that needs them to stretch (retreat) and then...
Are men really like rubber bands? Understanding retreating (Part Two)

Are men really like rubber bands? Understanding retreating (Part Two)

In part one of this three part post, I explained how believing that all men are like rubber bands (as described in Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus by John Gray) with an intimacy cycle that causes them to retreat and return, can end up being a licence for women...
Obsessing & Overthinking – Processing the Evidence of your Relationship So You Can Move On

Obsessing & Overthinking – Processing the Evidence of your Relationship So You Can Move On

I’ve often talked about the fact that we’re inclined to talk and think too much when it comes to our relationships, whether we’re in one or out of it. When we’re ensconced in the relationship, we use discussing, and explaining, and thinking,...