Feeling bad about feeling good

When we’re people-pleasers, we imagine that being ‘good’ means that we’ll feel good. Of course, this is super confusing when we feel like crap despite trying to be everyone else’s version of ‘good’. We wrestle with overwhelm,...
The Pandemic Will Teach Us To Be More Boundaried

The Pandemic Will Teach Us To Be More Boundaried

In my teens, I would sometimes be in situations where boys pressed to go further than I wanted. I learned how to steer busy hands back up north and to try to make it all as nicey-nice as possible so they didn’t feel wounded and I didn’t feel threatened....
Do you really feel guilty, or are you hiding out?

Do you really feel guilty, or are you hiding out?

Have you ever found yourself in a cycle of saying how guilty you feel about something? It can lead to paralysis or spending more time beating you up than you do taking positive action. What happens when you do nothing? You make no decisions or avoid them. You worry...