There might be more conditions to our unconditional love than we realise
There can be a temptation to use not having boundaries to prove how much we love and care about someone or how worthy we are of better treatment. We claim it’s our version of ‘unconditional love’. Sometimes that even extends itself to using suffering...Not accepting crumbs is the gift of self-love
One day, you stop taking the calls or returning the texts, and then you keep going. Maybe it’s that you stop waiting around for this person to figure out that you’re the one for them. Perhaps you tire of waiting for them to leave their relationship. Or,...
Ask yourself: Is there a way that I could love myself AND be in the relationship too?
An issue that becomes so evident when talking to people who are struggling in a relationship or who’ve been through a series of painful relationships, is that loving themselves and being in a relationship are seen as mutually exclusive. Now, sometimes...
The Vicious Cycle of Undervaluing Yourself
While chatting with a friend who is only a few months in business and having her doubts about continuing because of how she feels about valuing her work she said, “I don’t feel worthy of charging the proper rate yet”. As a result, she’s been charging much less to get...
