Advice: Do emotionally unavailable men change or should we just have an open marriage?

Advice: Do emotionally unavailable men change or should we just have an open marriage?

“I’ve been involved with an EUM man now for 15 years. I was only 23 when we met. We’ve had 4 children together. The last 3 yrs were very difficult. Deaths in the family, problems with a son. He started blaming not being intimate with me on everything...