Want More Dating Success? Be Discerning By Adopting a Recruiter Mindset

A recruiter is someone whose job is to match qualified candidates with suitable open positions at organisations. If they put any ole candidate forward for the role, they do everyone a disservice (and damage their reputation), so they have to be discerning. Having what...

‘Getting Along’ Plus Compatibility Equals Intimate, Loving Relationships

The things we do to have harmonious and friendly relationships with others so that we can be happy and get what we want from life is ‘getting along’. It’s how we attempt to meet our emotional needs, which include safety and security, intimacy, connection, and status,...

Dating Rules Don’t Work. Let’s Stop Blocking Intimacy.

Some people have had sex on the first date, only to never hear from the person again. Others went on to have a relationship and may even still be together. Some waited several weeks or months or abstained until marriage and progressed to a loving relationship. For...
It’s Not The X Factor: Stop Treating Dating Like You’re Auditioning For An Expert Judge

It’s Not The X Factor: Stop Treating Dating Like You’re Auditioning For An Expert Judge

‘Rejection’ within dating and relationships is widely treated like ‘auditioning’ for a part and then failing to get the role. Think about this for a moment: Treating dating like an audition means someone always holds the power from the outset. Your fate is...