Podcast Ep. 264: Let’s Talk About the Real Reasons Behind Affairs

Affairs have been my most requested topic this year, so in this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, I explore the real reasons why people have affairs. What a lot of us do is fall into the trap of assuming that a partner or spouse wasn’t...
Advice Wednesday: I Took Him Back & Now He’s Cheating Again

Advice Wednesday: I Took Him Back & Now He’s Cheating Again

Sarah asks: I left my cheating ex after going through hell. I managed to get over him after a few months and starting living again. Unfortunately I got back with him after he came sniffing around. It seemed everything was okay until the disappearing started again. My...
Some people just love trying to come up smelling of roses even when they leave you for someone else

Some people just love trying to come up smelling of roses even when they leave you for someone else

Have you ever been on the best date ever or best few dates ever, only to be unceremoniously blanked afterwards despite promises of another date? This person wanted to leave you with a really good impression and fill you up with good feelings and memories so that when...

Don’t Typecast Or Pigeonhole Yourself In A Role That Takes You Away From Yourself

“If you want to be the girlfriend, the wife, have a relationship, have a future, then you’re playing the wrong role here – you don’t take up the Other Woman role when it’s not what you want and it’s not going to help you get what...
Why He’s Not An Assclown Because He Broke Up With You/Doesn’t Want a Relationship

Why He’s Not An Assclown Because He Broke Up With You/Doesn’t Want a Relationship

The moment that the decision is made for a relationship to end and the words are final, we feel an immense sense of loss, of insecurity, indignant hurt, and as the dust settles and the days and weeks pass, white space appears where you originally had plans with them....