Advice Wednesday: My boyfriend is still married to two women–what should I do?

Advice Wednesday: My boyfriend is still married to two women–what should I do?

Have you ever been in a situation where if someone else were to tell you that they were in it, you’d be telling them to run for the hills, yet despite this, you’re still there? I’ve been in some situations where I look back and wonder if I was...
The Truth About Porkies: Are you comfortable with being lied to?

The Truth About Porkies: Are you comfortable with being lied to?

Recently, BR reader Magnolia shared a lengthy quote on lying from which the first line stuck out for me”As soon as there is any kind of deception, stop everything.” (source: Boundaries in Dating) Experience has taught me and so many others, that when...
Understanding Code Red and Amber behaviour in Relationships

Understanding Code Red and Amber behaviour in Relationships

Following my original post ‘knowing when to bail – red flags’, I realised I need to a deep dive into this subject. When it comes to responding to red flags, time and again, I see that, in these situations, we don’t know what to do and if or when to...
Why Is He Calling Me? What type of vibes am I giving off?

Why Is He Calling Me? What type of vibes am I giving off?

Picture this: Recovering Fallback Girl (woman who loves emotionally unavailable men) home on a Saturday minding her own business and trying to change her ways so that she doesn’t end up repeating her pattern, hears from a Mr unavailable who in the past she has...
Am I Involved With an Assclown? How To Spot Someone Who Means You & the Relationship No Good

Am I Involved With an Assclown? How To Spot Someone Who Means You & the Relationship No Good

An assclown is someone that deliberately and consistently goes out of their way to treat you without love, care, trust and respect. They add little or no value to the relationship and the cost to you of being with him/her is often your self-esteem, your well-being,...