Not over your ex but hate that they’re not contacting you? Read this

Not over your ex but hate that they’re not contacting you? Read this

A rather tricky and painful place to be is realising that we’re not over our ex and that it’s too hard to try to be ‘friends’ but then feeling aggrieved and rejected that they’re not still attempting to contact us. If you’ve felt or...
Podcast Ep. 167: Texting Anxiety – Why didn’t you text back?

Podcast Ep. 167: Texting Anxiety – Why didn’t you text back?

This week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions tackles the subject of Texting Anxiety while dating. I talk through three scenarios: corresponding for several minutes and then it stopping, becoming dependent on the pattern of texts and panicking...
They Had A Life Before You. Acknowledge The Backstory.

They Had A Life Before You. Acknowledge The Backstory.

Sometimes we become so consumed by our involvement with someone that when it ends, we lose sight of the fact that this person existed before we came along. We spend weeks, months or even years torturing ourselves over the “what ifs” and feel shortchanged...

Raising Your Dating Standards: Why you shouldn’t be OK with lazy communication via text, email etc

A couple of years ago, I worked with a client that struggled to get over a six-month ‘relationship’ where it had become apparent that her now-ex had limited interest and was seeing other women. She wanted feedback on an email she intended to send to him...
Advice: Help! He Disappears, Doesn’t Call, Pops Up Every Fortnight and Gives Me a Magical Time. Is He Unavailable? Er…YEAH

Advice: Help! He Disappears, Doesn’t Call, Pops Up Every Fortnight and Gives Me a Magical Time. Is He Unavailable? Er…YEAH

Marci writes I have read and re-read on emotionally unavailable men here at your site. I am so confused on this issue due to the current situation I am in. He falls in and out of many types. Help me please to resolve this confusion and frustration. We started with a...