Relationship Advice – Is my boyfriend gay?

A while back, New York Moment’s contributed a great column on How to tell if your boyfriend is gay. A comment has been posted which took my breath away and I have posted the response here: I have been dating a man for about four years, 40’s, who is very...

My Guide to Dating a Co-Worker

I have enough experience and the stories of so many others, to mean it when I say ‘Don’t sh*t on your own door step!’ Dating a co-worker, I’ve always firmly believed is what you do when you really, really like someone; not what you do when...

Tips for Matchmaking

You’ve decided that you want to set your friend up on a date with someone, which is nice thing to do, but here are some guidelines that should ensure minimal friction if things don’t go according to plan. 1. Don’t exaggerate either person’s...

Valentine’s Day: Yawn

I really do feel for people at this time of year because whether you’re single or attached, you’re absorbing some sort of messaging about the Hallmark drama that is Valentine’s day. If you’re attached, you might be getting your knickers in a...

Boosting Your Self-Esteem

Self-esteem issues are at the heart of a lot of unhappiness for many women and it can be difficult to see your way past the vicious cycle of feeling like you’re just not good enough or you deserve whatever is happening to you. It’s important to have pride...

Achy Breaky Heart

When I come across women who love emotionally unavailable men (including myself who is a recovering addict), I always ask: Where the hell did we all go wrong? A common thread with a lot of us is that at some point our heart took a pounding. Most of us have tale of man...

10 Things I Hate About Online Dating

Yes some people have met the love of their lives and had lots of fun with online dating, but more often than not, it’s a pain in the ass. I did try it when I was single and I was a touch scared of the weirdo’s that are out there and how confrontational,...