10 Signs That A Guy Wants You Just For Sex

Note: this post was originally written in November 2006 when the blog’s audience was predominantly women dating men. The advice in this post applies to same-sex relationships as well as women who just want a guy for sex. 1. He tells you. There are a whole lotta lines...

Rules for ‘Honesty’ in Relationships

1. Don’t ask questions if you’re not prepared to accept the honest answer. Honesty is not about hearing what you want to hear. 2. Don’t beat them up for being honest about a past that you weren’t a part of. Laughing and joking along about their...

Tidy Up Your Love Life

1. If you’re not being yourself, start being yourself. You don’t want to wake up one day and discover that not only do you not know who you are but that you don’t like yourself either. If you have to compromise the fundamental you in order to have a...

Letting The Guy Pay on a Date.

I had someone ask me yesterday if she should offer to go halves or pay for the whole dinner for a first date. “Who asked who out?” I asked. “He did.” “And why do you want to pay half or for the whole dinner?” “Well we’re...