REMOVE THE BLOCKS THAT STAND IN THE WAY OF THE RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT
A relationship block is anything that gets in the way of you creating, forging and sustaining healthy, loving relationships.
If you're experiencing blocks, you've likely also discovered that your self-esteem takes quite a knock from spending time, energy and emotions on emotionally unavailable partners and grappling with your own emotions, fears and beliefs.
Being in relationships that leave you confused, lonely, anxious, insecure, riding a rollercoaster, depressed, waiting around, losing your dignity, being a people pleaser on steroids and more, can cause you to feel as if you want to give up on love and yourself altogether, or to feel as if it's best to settle for familiar even if that's painful crumbs.
You might be in your very own Groundhog Day and yet be too scared to leave a relationship that's not working...
...or too scared to put yourself out there again.
You might have an awareness of why things are the way that they are...
...or perhaps you've convinced yourself that you're capable of Jedi mind tricks or that everything is beyond your control.
You might not know where to begin, or think that's it's going to take too long...
...or are scared of confronting past experiences.
Help is at hand.
The Breakthrough is a 7-week online course that empowers people who want to be in a loving, committed relationship but who have a pattern of being involved with emotionally unavailable partners or avoiding relationships, to get out of their own way so that they feel confident and happier, and become available for the relationship they desire and deserve.
- Keep being in relationships that don’t get off the ground or that hit obstacle after obstacle
- Wake up hungry in your relationships wondering how is it that you can be so into someone and yet you’re in pain and your needs aren’t being met
- You’ve been with same person, different package, and are winding up in variations of the same situation with similar frustrations and complaints
- Want to be in a relationship and to meet ‘The One’ but are exhausted from past experiences and the dating process, or it’s feeling very do or die, last chance saloon
- Don’t truly feel good about or believe in you so you people please, look for validation, put your romantic partners on a pedestal, and settle for far less than you deserve
A pattern left unbroken not only stops you from being available for an available relationship with love, care, trust and respect, but it gradually robs you of your confidence, feeding unhealthy beliefs and convincing you that this is as good as it gets. You'll veer between staying in relationships long past their sell-by-date and feeling distinctly uncomfortable when you're around prospective partners who don't bring drama to your life.
DURING THE BREAKTHROUGH YOU WILL…
Get clear on what you really want and any conflicts that are disrupting you. No more vagueness, no more fantasy wishlists—learn a values-based approach that will offer you a foundation for aligning with dating prospects and in turn relationships that chime with your values.
Discover the spiritual guidance of relationships and what your pattern is trying to show you. I lift the lid on where your good qualities are being misused and the specific habits that are putting up ‘road blocks’ on your journey.
Go through my 7-step process of unlocking the pain and untruths behind your present-day dating and relationship habits. Clean up what you uncover and forgive your younger self. Discover your secret agenda, why it’s there, and how to get in alignment with your true desire so that you stop undermining you.
Supercharge your gut and intuition. Calm the uneasiness about the past and anxiety about the future, harness the guidance of your emotions, and become more confident and mindful about assessing compatibility.
Build your confidence with dating and relationships with clear guidance on what dating is really about and when and how to progress to a relationship. We’ll focus on mindset and approach to the dating process, including weeding out time-wasters, how to date with your self-esteem in tow, what you need to know before you get invested to the point of thinking that they’re ‘The One’ or that you’re in a relationship, and how to recognise when your relationship is going somewhere good.
Be armed with practices, tools and mindset shifts for raising your self-worth and self-image. Feel less stressed by taking care of you in and out of relationships and build your resilience to conflict, criticism, rejection and disappointment.
WHY THE BREAKTHROUGH WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE
If you’re serious about being in a serious relationship, getting to the heart of what has been happening in your relationships and why, plus owning what you really want and clearing out any beliefs and habits that don’t serve your heartfelt desires, is pivotal.
Over the past eleven years, I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of people to recognise and break the habit of being with emotionally unavailable people. I’ve devoted over five years to coaching people on improving self-esteem and breaking their patterns through my courses, Build Your Self-Esteem, The Pattern Breaker, The People Pleasing Diet and my 30-Day projects, and you know what everyone really wants and loves to talk about? Yep, relationships.
Wondering why the hell they’re not in the relationship they want, or trying to figure out the chaos that they’re in or why every relationship seems to have their mother/father/ex-bully in it, or sharing their reasons for why they’re ultra convinced that they are the exception and that as a result, they have to settle for sub-par relationships.
99% of these people tell me that they want to be in a relationship and are hurting because they’re not. Every time people share their desire with me yet the outcome of their efforts is so radically different, I want to know one thing:
What’s in the space between your desires and your current outcomes?
That’s what you will not only discover on The Breakthrough but that you’re going to clear out, because everything in between is standing between you and the relationship you want and deserve. It’s not about you not being “good enough”; it’s not because dating and decency is dead; what separates you from someone who is in a mutually fulfilling relationship with love, care, trust, and respect, is your habits of thinking and behaviour specifically around 1) your self-worth and 2) what you think a relationship is about—this can be changed.
IT’S TIME TO OWN YOU & LET GO OF THE BELIEFS & RELATIONSHIP HABITS THAT ARE BLOCKING YOU FROM ENJOYING YOUR TRUE SELF & LOVING RELATIONSHIPS.
Delivered over 7 weeks (1-week break in the middle makes it a total of 8 weeks), The Breakthrough is an online course hosted on a private site. Classes are delivered primarily by video (with transcripts and audio versions) plus there are worksheets/workbooks (Self Sheets) and journaling guides, where applicable. While course material is dispersed module by module over the duration of the course, it is self-paced so you don’t have to worry about showing up to class, “missing out” or “falling behind” due to commitments such as travel plans. I run a fortnightly Office Hours (Q&A sessions) as well as bonus sessions plus if you’re on Facebook, you can join the secret and private Facebook group for students.
How The Course Works
When I started The Breakthrough, I admit that a part of me was looking to prove to myself that nothing needed to change. Boy was I wrong. I have been blown away by the level of insights provided in the course material as well as by the Office Hours sessions. I had so many breakthroughs but in particular, what I uncovered about my subconscious agenda shocked me and has given way to some profound healing plus the exercise on emotional baggage made my priorities so clear to me and helped me choose what I could let go of. I sorted out more stuff in a couple of months than I had in years of therapy. For the first time ever, I really do feel like I know myself and I'm done with Mr Unavailables!
THE COURSE OUTLINE
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
How many weeks does The Breakthrough run for?
This is a 7-week course with one break week in between.
Do I have access to the course material after the course ends?
Standard access is 12 months.
Do I have to show up at a particular time?
No. New course modules are released each week. If a Q&A (Office Hours) session is live but you can’t make it, the replay will be available. The course is self-paced so work it on your schedule.
Is the course suitable if I’m already in a relationship?
Regardless of whether single, dating, in a relationship or even married, start at ground zero to get a foundational sense of 1) you and 2) healthy relationships, so yes, it most definitely is suitable.
Is this different to The Pattern Breaker/Build Your Self-Esteem/The People Pleasing Diet?
Very. I have never run a course devoted to dating, relationships and emotional availability although it’s been my most frequent request. I talk about the subjects from my other courses but it is all content specifically created for The Breakthrough with deep dives and plenty of new concepts never revealed before on Baggage Reclaim.
Is there a payment plan?
Yes. This is available when you click through to place your order.
How much access do I have to Natalie?
I'm active in the Facebook group, I run fortnightly Office Hours as well as bonus sessions (this is where I'm online and ready to answer questions and troubleshoot issues so you get a reply back that day), and put aside time each week to answer ad hoc queries. If you've booked coaching then you have more one-to-one access. For very detailed additional support outside of what's mentioned here, depending on her availability, she can be booked for clarity sessions (email and phone consultations). I don't teach large classes because it makes me better able to serve students.
I’ve already booked to attend the live event - do I get a discount and what’s the difference?
Yes, you do get a discount and you should receive an email from me. Get in touch if you haven't had it yet and we can get you set up. The live event is a hands-on opportunity to focus on the 7-step process for getting out of your own way. The course covers this but also has a helluva lot more material. The event is an enhancement to the online program.
I want to attend The Breakthrough Live as well. Is there a discount?
There are a limited number of places that include a bonus of a place at a live event. If in doubt, drop us an email at shop AT baggagereclaim.co.uk and we can ensure that when you book, you get the discounted or included place.
Where will The Breakthrough Live be held?
London, New York, San Francisco and Los Angeles have been the starter locations so far but I will be expanding. I'm also going to run a one-day live online event.
Is travel to The Breakthrough Live included?
No, it’s not. It's your ticket to the event but does not include accommodation or travel.
What's the refund policy?
Refunds are available on the online course up until day 7 of the program--this is October 11th 2016 for this session of The Breakthrough. If you decide to cancel the course but keep your workshop place (The Breakthrough Live), you will be refunded the course minus the price of your place at the time of booking.
Can I share my access/material with others?
Definitely not. The course and all of its materials are issued to the named student. Course materials are yours to download but distribution/sharing is prohibited.
Can I gift someone with a place?
Yes you can. You can either make your purchase and notify us afterwards at shop AT baggagereclaim.co.uk.
Is anything in the Facebook group visible to the public?
No. It's a private and secret Facebook group. What you see in your feed is based on what you have access to not what other people can see. For detailed information on how groups work, please see Facebook's guide to privacy settings for groups. here.
Do I get a student discount if I'm a student already?
Yes, book via the school not on here.
Once I sign up, how long does it take for me to enjoy a student discount?
You won't receive one on your Breakthrough purchase but you will have student discounts after the refund policy has ended (you will receive info on Day 8).
How often does The Breakthrough run?
2-4 times a year. After this session, the next one will be early 2017.