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If you’ve found yourself struggling to get over a relationship that didn’t exist or it did, but was very different to what you’d cooked up in your imagination, you have been involved in a fantasy relationship. The nature of these have changed with the advent of modern technology such as texts, email, IM, Facebook and the increasing popularity of casual relationships where it’s all too easy to make a loaf out of crumbs. Some people end up spending months or years with someone who they hardly see or hear from. Change your perspective on fantasy relationships, discover why one would be attractive to you in the first place, and discover tools to help you change your pattern of thinking and behaviour so that you can be available for a relationship in the real world. Find out more.

When you’re in a relationship that keeps resurrecting itself, either because you keep going back, they keep creeping their way back in and refuse to respect your wishes, or you’re both caught up in a destructive cycle, The No Contact Rule exists to set you free from relationships that need to end and people who have no intentions of either putting themselves into the relationship, or leaving you alone so that you can move on. A survival guide that explains why this method is necessary, how to do it, and dealing with the myriad of emotions including guilt and rejection.Note that due to three books being currently updated, certain bundles (e.g Mr Unavailable and the NC Rule bundles) are not currently available. For all queries relating to books including customer service queries, please email bookshop AT baggagereclaim.co.uk (don’t forget to add the @ sign). You may also find it handy to read the FAQ page for the bookshop before emailing. Please don’t send advice queries or spammy stuff to this address as they’ll be deleted.