Florence Nightingale: Women That Fix/Heal/Help and Empathy vs Sympathy

Following on from yesterday where I talked about This One Time in Band Camp stories and how we can often connect with someone over their hurt, or feel invested because of their pain, I wanted to expand on the whole ‘Florence Nightingale’ role that many...
This One Time In Band Camp & Buying Into Their Old Hurt (Part One)

This One Time In Band Camp & Buying Into Their Old Hurt (Part One)

While writing my ebook Get to Grips With…Values & Value in Relationships, I was reminded of how us ladies can be a sucker for a sob story when I explained about how we can overvalue stuff like ‘chemistry’, ‘attraction’ and a very...
Advice: Why is he having sex with me if he doesn’t want me and knows how I feel about him?

Advice: Why is he having sex with me if he doesn’t want me and knows how I feel about him?

I met a man who is the cousin of a good friend in June of 2007 and have been on an emotional rollercoaster ever since. I have totally fallen for him to the point of obsessing. In the beginning, he was so attentive and sweet; shortly after the relationship became...