Podcast Ep. 254: Are You Inadvertently Avoiding a Successful Outcome?

Sometimes, despite our fervent desire to no longer be in a painful and uncomfortable situation, we are stuck. We keep going back or we stick to the familiar pattern. In this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, I talk about why our fear of what being...
Podcast Ep. 102: On ‘Failing’ (Why Are You Still Single? Why Aren’t You More Successful?)

Podcast Ep. 102: On ‘Failing’ (Why Are You Still Single? Why Aren’t You More Successful?)

In this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, I face down the task of sharing a somewhat private struggle — fear of failure, fear of success. From @natlue Instagram Stories Some nuggets about help versus support from the episode: “One of the...
Are You Inadvertently Dimming Your Light? When You Have a Pattern of Being Afraid of Outshining

Are You Inadvertently Dimming Your Light? When You Have a Pattern of Being Afraid of Outshining

Last week, I had what I refer to as a ‘punchbulb moment’: a lightbulb moment that punches you in the head, aka an epiphany. Like when I suddenly clicked that what had happened with my father and his family (being frozen out and the Chinese whispers) was...