Are You Compromised In Your Relationships?

Are You Compromised In Your Relationships?

I look back at some of my past relationships and I compromised and was so compromised that I didn’t recognise myself. My boundaries would get battered, I’d forget about things that I valued, and I would morph to reduce the conflicts that were arising in my...
Knowing If You Feel Good In New Relationships Part Two

Knowing If You Feel Good In New Relationships Part Two

  In part one, I talked about the prep work needed for you to be in a fairly optimal position for dating and relationships and some of the initial signals that you can use to determine whether you’re feeling good in a good relationship, or catering to...
Knowing If You Feel Good In New Relationships Part One

Knowing If You Feel Good In New Relationships Part One

I’m regularly told by readers, that after being involved in various dubious relationships, they’re not sure what to expect from a new relationship. How should it feel? What does it look like? What am I looking out for? How do I know if it feels good? I...

NML’s Roughguide to a New Relationship

In almost two years of blogging I learnt a lot about myself, dating and relationships, but the past two months with my boyfriend (yay) has been an eye-opener. I am in a bonafide, committed relationship and it is amazing. There is no ambiguity, I know where I stand, he...

Guest Post: An Emotional Guide for the New Relationship

Love is tough. People say that all the time but it always seems more than worth it when you’re in the moment with that guy that you’ve been lusting over for months who finally noticed you. In that moment, all the advice you’ve been given and all your...