Podcast Ep. 202: Let’s Talk About Sex

In this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, I talk about why we need to evaluate our relationship with sex, especially when it’s a factor in how we perceive and value ourselves as well as others, or we use it to try and control our relationship...
Can You Take a Hint? Why Hints Are Clues To What’s Really Up With Your Relationship

Can You Take a Hint? Why Hints Are Clues To What’s Really Up With Your Relationship

Every day, people who are dating or in relationships where there’s unavailability or other issues, come up against hinting, you know indirectly or slightly indicating something. In essence, we receive feedback and signals from the actions and words of our...
30 Signs That Someone Isn’t Interested Or Is Half-Heartedly Interested In You: How To Avoid Being a Passing-Time Candidate

30 Signs That Someone Isn’t Interested Or Is Half-Heartedly Interested In You: How To Avoid Being a Passing-Time Candidate

In the past, I made a lot of excuses for the behaviours of people that I was involved with, the anxiety that I felt with them, and my continued investment. Over the years of writing this blog, I’ve read thousands of comments and emails where we make excuses,...

When They Don’t Reciprocate Your interest

Back in the summer of ’97 (jaysus that was a long time ago), I spent the summer living in Baltimore, partying it up and working. In typical me fashion (back then anyway), I clapped eyes on the team leader and went into instant lust. I was determined to, as we...

10 Signs That A Guy Wants You Just For Sex

Note: this post was originally written in November 2006 when the blog’s audience was predominantly women dating men. The advice in this post applies to same-sex relationships as well as women who just want a guy for sex. 1. He tells you. There are a whole lotta lines...