Guest Post: In Retrospect – A Year of Personal Development

Another NYM year is rapidly coming to a close. On Friday at 9:18pm I’ll turn 34. And that, of course, means that there is a whole brand new NYM year to look forward to. Each year prior to my birthday, I like to take stock of my year. What have I accomplished?...

What Men Want Most…A kick up the arse…. ;-)

Over on Dating Dames they’ve been discussing What Men Want Most which according to Dr Klayne Rasmussen a family and marriage therapist of Your Relationship Success is pretty much all about serving his egotistical needs. Now I have said it several times and...

The Sex Break

A Sex Break is a half-way house to a Dating Hiatus and obviously, judging by the term, it means abstaining from sex whilst dating for an agreed period. This is great when you can’t do cold turkey, as a self-enforced Sex Break may be able to open your eyes enough...

One Night Stands – To Do, Or Not To Do?

One Night Stands are what I also refer to as Stranger Sex. They occur when you pick up someone (or they pick you up) and you both decide to skip the formalities and get naked despite the fact that you barely know each other. Often someone creeps out in the middle of...

Things That Guys Don’t Like

Lord knows they are far from perfect themselves, but just so you stay on the right side of them, this is my guide to the behaviour that will get you canned or at least have him feeling super wary of you! Bitchiness Of course they forget that they’re partial to a...

Ending Things When You’re ‘Just’ Dating

People think of breaking up in terms of relationships, but we still have to ‘break’ when we have been dating someone and don’t think that it’s working out anymore. You’ve gone on a date or few with someone; you’ve been...