Advice Wednesday: I Wasn’t Sure About My Boyfriend But Now That I Am, He Just Wants To Be Casual

Advice Wednesday: I Wasn’t Sure About My Boyfriend But Now That I Am, He Just Wants To Be Casual

Lucy asks: I met a sweet, lovely person at work, we fell in love and dated for four months. As I came fresh out of a longer friends with benefits relationship (my partner wasn’t ready to date), I had mixed feelings and sometimes felt rushed. I wanted to take it slowly...

Why We Must Be A Priority & Never An Option

Do you ever start your day with good intentions to focus on the stuff that you need to do, only to find that because you decided to reply to emails first, most of the day has slipped through your fingers and you’re chasing your tail? Yep, it’s a very common...
Revisited: Are you on standby? Why you’re not Mister / Miss Last Minute Option

Revisited: Are you on standby? Why you’re not Mister / Miss Last Minute Option

Don’t forget that I’m on a ‘break’ until September so I will mostly be featuring some of yours and my favourite posts from the archives. ********** After I wrote about whether you’re ready to date again, there was a flurry of discussion...

Are You On Standby? Why You’re Not Mr or Miss Last-Minute Option

Over the past few days since I wrote about whether you’re ready to date again, there’s been a flurry of discussion in the comments about people who rely on making last-minute plans under the guise of being ‘spontaneous’ and who, when you try to...
Why You’re Nobody’s ‘Option’

Why You’re Nobody’s ‘Option’

It’s Friday night here in the UK and I’m pretty sure, as happens every weekend, that some of you are waiting for that ‘certain someone’ to call/text/email about the possibility of making arrangements. Some of you, by the time you read this,...