The Quick Guide To Unavailable Relationships – Including Casual, Rebound, Affairs, Dalliances and Secret Relationships

After several years of writing Baggage Reclaim and being asked numerous times, “Are they emotionally unavailable?”, I’ve put together a list of the most common unavailable relationships, as I’ve realised that pretty much everything I’ve...
Casual Relationships: All The Fringe Benefits of a Relationship…Without The Actual Relationship

Casual Relationships: All The Fringe Benefits of a Relationship…Without The Actual Relationship

Several years back, in what turned out to be my ‘epiphany relationship’ that completely changed me, I was involved with someone that: 1) Pursued me and when we finally got together, he said he’d fancied me ever since we’d been introduced...
Why Dating Is a Discovery Phase To Work Out If You Want a Relationship (With Them)

Why Dating Is a Discovery Phase To Work Out If You Want a Relationship (With Them)

I’ve been in enough pseudo, illusionary relationships to know that I have sometimes made assumptions about the state of play and engaged in behaviour that was counterproductive to me actually forging a healthy relationship with a chance of growing. This happens...
Drama Seekers: It’s time to get off the relationship crack

Drama Seekers: It’s time to get off the relationship crack

Today is the very first day in the 30 Days of Drama Reduction series. Lot’s of women believe that drama is part and parcel of relationships. Some are purposeful Drama Seekers, actively pursuing men that cater to the high adrenaline factor, but there are a hell...
No Ex On The First Date

No Ex On The First Date

You’re on a date. You’re both nervous and you make polite chit chat. Maybe you order a drink and loosen up a little and you’re both tentatively finding out about each other. You start talking about dating/relationships/how you’ve come to be on...