Pushing Your Mental Flush Handle
Several weeks back, one of my friends Twanna was telling me about how on a few occasions she’s been chatted up by a guy only to glance down and realise that his wedding band is in his pocket. She was of course outraged at the audacity of them and as I was rather...
Understanding Code Red and Amber behaviour in Relationships
There are behaviours and situations that get presented in relationships that signal that you need to opt out or at minimum, slow down and address the situation before proceeding. What I’m about to explain are what typically make you incompatible, or signal a...
Love Lessons: When You Can’t or Won’t Ask Questions When Dating (P4) -Getting To The Answers
I’ve had a lot of emails and comments over the past few days regarding what questions you should be asking boyfriends etc. Putting aside the concern that you don’t know what to ask, the simple answer to that question is this: I can’t tell you all the...
Love Lessons: When You Can’t or Won’t Ask Questions When Dating (P3) Communication is Not All Verbal
Over the past couple of posts (part one and part two) I’ve been talking about when you’re involved with someone who you don’t feel that you can ask questions of, or when you do, you get met with lies, a brick wall of silence, aggression, or passive...
