Thirty Days of Drama Reduction
March 28, 2008 by NML
On Monday, I’ll be starting a Thirty Days of Drama Reduction series. Every day I’m going to post an insight and tip about the inadvertent quest for drama and how to overcome your drama seeking tendencies so that you can learn to gravitate towards healthier relationships and also give a boost to your self-esteem.
There are so many accidental Drama Seekers out there and unfortunately, seeking out situations that cater to the drama meter only serve to sabotage any possibility of happiness, whether that be on your own or with someone.
Many readers are hooked on dysfunction. Many are hooked on the emotional rollercoaster. I get women telling me that they want to be happy and that they can’t bear the madness…and then throw themselves head first into situations that drive them crazy. Too many women are seeking out the fairy tale and everything around us seems to be telling us that if we’re not trying to create adrenaline rushes through all of this drama, we are lacking something in our lives.
All of this ends up having us believing that we are in love with a guy when in actual fact it’s the familiar feeling of drama that he brings to the table.
It’s time to get real. It’s time to put yourself on drama control! It’s time for a change!
If you have any specific issues or questions you want tackled, now is the time to put them forward!
Look out for posts from fab bloggers such as Hot Alpha Female, Lisa Q, Lance from Honey and Lance and more!
Have you got insights or tips to share? Have you written a post about drama? Would you like to include a guest post? Drop me a line and I’ll include you in the series.
Your thoughts?
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The drama seems to come when you know you should walk away and yet….can’t seem to do it. When he is “just not that into you”, how do you make yourself not only believe it but accept it without the drama? Looking forward to reading your series.
“All of this ends up having us believing that we are in love with a guy when in actual fact it’s the familiar feeling of drama that he brings to the table”
This is one of the hardest things to accept - that the great love for which we have sacrificed so much, wasn’t love at all, just another way of getting that rush. It isn’t a pretty sight, seeing it like that, without the camouflage of romance.
Great idea for a series, nml. I think you are really getting to the heart of the problem now. Looking forward to reading more.
vikkiT …. an Accidental Drama Seeker ….
Christine - thanks for your comment and I will focus on your question as one of the topics.
Vikki T - Thank you! It’s all one big mess but it’s one that you can get out of. You just have to start breaking habits and associations and looking for positive attention. I hope you enjoy the series.