I started Baggage Reclaim in September 2005, and there are over 1700 blog posts. If you’re new to the site, welcome! You might not know where to start, so this page features a selection of popular and super-helpful posts on a variety of topics.
And if you’re looking for podcast episodes, I have a separate guide for The Baggage Reclaim Sessions.
This selection has been read many millions of times over the years.
When You’re Accused of Cheating
Don’t They Care About Me? Didn’t I Mean Something To Them?
The Big Question: Will he try to get in contact with me?
Why Do They Keep Having Sex With Me If They’re Not Interested Or Don’t Want The Relationship I Want?
10 Signs That A Guy Wants You Just For Sex
Overlappers: When they start a new relationship just before your breakup
Understanding, identifying and letting go of emotional baggage
How to be more emotionally available (and break patterns)
Reeling from an out-of-the-blue breakup
Working out whether someone is emotionally unavailable
Figuring out whether it’s a good idea to be friends with your ex
Understanding what No Contact is and why it’s not about being ‘mean to your ex after a breakup
Signs you’re in the wrong relationship
Signs you’re settling for crumbs in your relationships
Choppers—recognising when you’re in an emotionally abusive relationship
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