Podcast Ep. 259: Let’s Talk About Overgiving and Overcompensating in Our Relationships

Feel routinely underappreciated and taken advantage of despite how much you give and do? This week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast is for you. Overgiving is where you exploit yourself through the guise of giving to make yourself feel...

No more crumbs is a big yes to love, care, trust and respect

It’s amazing what we talk ourselves into and accept from others when we don’t believe that we’re worth it. Or, when we know we are but don’t think who and what we want is out there. There’s a fear that we can’t do better and that this is as good as it...
Advice Wednesday: Am I ‘The Bridge’ For The Christian Woman I Share So Much In Common With?

Advice Wednesday: Am I ‘The Bridge’ For The Christian Woman I Share So Much In Common With?

Kevin asks: Two weeks ago, a female employee, 21 (I’m 29), who I’d become good acquaintances with, handed in her notice. Prior to this, I’d never considered a relationship with her. That day, there was a big concert for a Christian worship band that we’re both fans...
Don’t Be The Bridge Between Someone’s Old & New Relationship

Don’t Be The Bridge Between Someone’s Old & New Relationship

Odds are that if somebody came to you and said, “I like you. You seem like a good, kind, loving, accommodating person so I have a proposition for you: I’m wounded because I’m fresh out of a relationship. Thing is, I don’t really want to think...
Advice Wednesday: He’s separated, we’ve been together for 2 years but he’s super-busy. Help!

Advice Wednesday: He’s separated, we’ve been together for 2 years but he’s super-busy. Help!

Sometimes people overestimate their capacity, interest, time or even themselves. It’s part of the human condition. We think it’s going to take an hour to do something and next thing half the day has gone. We start off all guns blazing with a new...