Revisited: Are you worried about being ‘good enough’ for something you don’t want or are not even doing?

Don’t forget that I’m on a ‘break’ until September so I’ll mostly be featuring some of yours and my favourite posts from the archives. ********** Last night I had a well overdue catchup with one of my closest friends and as we filled one...
You’re Not Wearing ‘Eau de I’m Not Good Enough’

You’re Not Wearing ‘Eau de I’m Not Good Enough’

When your basis for accepting you is tied to whether others accept you first, it not only removes all of your power, but also your self-esteem and personal security because you’re tied to moving and changing external forces, some of which may be dodgy and...
Are You Waiting To Be Chosen? Why It’s Time To Put Away Your Choose Me Stick

Are You Waiting To Be Chosen? Why It’s Time To Put Away Your Choose Me Stick

When I listen to people explain their frustrations with dating or how they’re feeling rejected after a possible date didn’t materialise, or not getting past a date or few with someone, what I realise is some of us are waiting to be chosen. In these...
Are you worried about being ‘good enough’ for something you don’t want or are not even doing?

Are you worried about being ‘good enough’ for something you don’t want or are not even doing?

Last night I had a well overdue catch-up with one of my closest friends. As we filled each other in, it was scary and hilarious how we’ve been experiencing a number of the same things. I had an aha moment when she told me that after near running herself into the...
Self-esteem in a nutshell – When you believe you’re not good enough to drive your own life

Self-esteem in a nutshell – When you believe you’re not good enough to drive your own life

I often hear people discuss self-esteem like it’s something mystical and in short supply. Fundamentally, self-esteem comes down to treating and regarding yourself as a person of value. It’s about your confidence and perceiving yourself as being worthwhile....