‘Keeping the Peace’ Just Might Be Hurting Your Emotional Wellbeing

Many people who don’t have self-esteem that they can rely on often consider themselves to be keepers of the peace. There’s just one not-so-small problem: their actions destroy their inner peace. Keeping the peace is often code for keeping it zipped when you want to...

Passive Aggression in Relationships Part 3

In parts one and two of this series, I explored the dynamics of passive-aggressive behaviour and how Mr Unavailables or assclowns may behave, but also how a woman might behave in some common scenarios. In today’s post, I will look at some ways of dealing with...

Passive Aggression in Relationships Part 2

In part one, I explained how a typical Mr Unvailable or assclown (or maybe he’s both) uses passive-aggression in the relationship to absolve himself of any responsibility but also to do nothing. But does it surprise you to know that we can indulge in our own...
Passive Aggression in Relationships Part 1

Passive Aggression in Relationships Part 1

When you’re in struggling relationships, especially with emotionally unavailable people (Mr/Ms Unavailables) and assclowns, you are likely to experience passive aggression. According to Wikipedia: “Passive-aggressive behavior refers to passive, sometimes...