Advice Wednesday: Should I Worry About His Reluctance To Label Our Relationship?
Lauren asks: I have been seeing a guy for around 4/5 months and the other night he brought it up and we had “the talk” and he expressed how he doesn’t want to put a label on it out of fear it might change and if it happens it will happen naturally....
Carting excess baggage around puts the past on repeat. Offload, repack, reclaim.
Before I faced up to how I felt about my childhood, my relationships, and ultimately the way I truly felt about me as a result of these and any choices I was making in adulthood, I’d be asked about what I was looking for in a relationship and respond with...
Are you clutching your security blanket? Why it’s time to strip off the extra layers of anger and hurt you’re carrying
While listening to a reader reel off a list of hurts and incidents that had taken place over the years, I was reminded of an episode of the Salt N Pepa reality show, which I managed to catch one day when I should have been tidying and instead was regressing to being a...Why we’re attracted to emotionally unavailable partners who are like our parents (part 5): Breaking the Cycle
In parts one through four, I’ve explained how when we have unhealthy love habits, including being involved with unavailable people who offer the least likely prospect of a committed relationship and people who seek to take advantage and abuse our boundaries,...
