Why You Need To Drop The ‘But nobody’s perfect! We all have baggage!’ Argument

Why You Need To Drop The ‘But nobody’s perfect! We all have baggage!’ Argument

If there’s one thing that observing relationships has taught me, it’s that we have a funny way of pitching a bad situation to ourselves and making it palatable. This allows us to remain invested in something that detracts from us because otherwise...
Advice: Is it my fault that we broke up?

Advice: Is it my fault that we broke up?

I met a guy last year who had been separated for six months after being married for nine and had two kids. He was upfront about this on the night I met him. I’d approached him in a pub by telling his friend I liked him. The following day he rang me constantly,...