We don’t need to give away power to be, do and have what we want

by | Happiness & Self-Esteem

Sometimes we set goals that are rooted in someone else’s actions, not ours. We decide that we want something. Rather than think about the actionable steps and the specific nature of the desire, we first identify a vague(ish) goal. Example: I want to be loved. I...
Begin With The End In Mind

Begin With The End In Mind

by | Happiness & Self-Esteem

When we’re doing or tolerating something that isn’t a reflection of who we really are, we often mistakenly believe that it must be because it’s what we want. This is why, for example, so many people remain in unfulfilling relationships with commitment resistant,...