

Revisited: Behind every excuse lies the real reason
Don’t forget that I’m on a ‘break’ until September so I will mostly be featuring some of yours and my favourite posts from the archives. One of the things that I’ve recognised as a differentiator between healthy and unhealthy...
What Does a Person Really Have To Do If We’re Willing To Excuse & Explain Away Everything?
Recently while talking with friends, I was struck by how much time is spent explaining away and hypothesising on another person’s behaviour. Literally an hour had gone by and a serious amount of excuses and debating had been going on. “He’s a really...Being Super-Busy: The Modern Lame Excuse For Managing Down Your Expectations
“He’s really busy right now” “She’s got a really important job” “They travel a lot” “They’re just insanely busy” “He said he hasn’t had five minutes” You know, I’m not disputing...