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Don’t disregard early warning signs or your gut instincts as negative or judgmental – this information is useful!

Due to the nature of my work and in particular my spidey senses and sniffer dog nose for shadiness and assholery, I can pick up on very subtle early warning signs that someone else may construe as me being ‘negative’ or even ‘too sensitive’. For...

Judging Isn’t The Same As Guessing: Why it’s time to stop giving you a hard time for being a bad guesser of character

by NATALIE | Values & Compatibility

One of the issues that many people who have felt burned by a relationship experience, especially those where the other party unfolded into something dramatically different to what they’d envisaged or believed, is that sense that due to having misjudged this person,...

It’s Not Your Intuition That Misleads You – Evaluate The Reasoning and Knowledge Applied

by NATALIE | The BS Diet

I had to go to an event in Marylebone a couple of days ago and something niggled at me about the location and which tube station I should go to (I went to the same place a couple of years ago but it was the day the Christmas lights were turned on so I couldn’t...

If you don’t know or haven’t met each other yet but they’re asking to meet you late at night, it’s not for cocoa and a chat

by NATALIE | Dating

Let’s imagine that a perfect stranger you’ve recently become ‘acquainted’ with, asks if they can meet you at 11pm at your place. Note that I use the term ‘acquainted’ loosely as it’s the internet hence it’s almost like...

There’s a big difference between giving the benefit of the doubt and giving the benefit of magic eraser

by NATALIE | The BS Diet

When people tell me stories about their relationships or their interactions with people where they experienced a great deal of pain, the stories are often peppered with, “I kept giving him/her the benefit of the doubt.” I’ve been in situations like...

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Judging Isn’t The Same As Guessing: Why it’s time to stop giving you a hard time for being a bad guesser of character

It’s Not Your Intuition That Misleads You – Evaluate The Reasoning and Knowledge Applied

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Judging Isn’t The Same As Guessing: Why it’s time to stop giving you a hard time for being a bad guesser of character

It’s Not Your Intuition That Misleads You – Evaluate The Reasoning and Knowledge Applied

If you don’t know or haven’t met each other yet but they’re asking to meet you late at night, it’s not for cocoa and a chat

There’s a big difference between giving the benefit of the doubt and giving the benefit of magic eraser

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