When you consciously want a relationship but subconsciously feel bad about you & relationships, it’s a recipe for unavailability

by | Emotional Unavailability

For a long time, I blamed bad luck, not exactly having any examples of healthy relationships, and the parade of men that I’d dated or gone out with, for why I couldn’t sustain a relationship and why they were always unhealthy. Deep down I felt that all of my...
Do You Have A Circular Issue?

Do You Have A Circular Issue?

by | Patterns & Habits

Do you ever find that you’re circling back to the same core issue(s) time and again, even though, on the surface, they seem different and even unrelated? How the hell did I wind up back here again?, you wonder. Sometimes we have an idea of what’s needed or...