by NATALIE | Aug 14, 2018 | Healthier Relationships
When I talk to people about their biggest struggles with relationships, an all too common complaint is struggling to deal with someone who is not willing to go the distance with intimacy and commitment. Each time they feel as if they’re making progress, this...
by NATALIE | Oct 29, 2014 | Happiness & Self-Esteem
If you’ve ever been involved with a Mr/Miss Unavailable, you will be familiar with being managed right down into their status quo. If you imagine that on a scale of 1-10, their status quo is that they like things to be around a 5, whatever they do whether it’s blowing...
by NATALIE | Oct 14, 2011 | Healthier Relationships
I see so many people practically getting a Ph.d in investigating what someone said but didn’t back up with words, or investing themselves in something that looks like a relationship but the other party has said things to the contrary, that I felt it was time to...
by NATALIE | Oct 12, 2011 | Emotional Unavailability
Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl is now available in print – yay – so I thought it was high time I shared an excerpt from this completely rewritten edition. In the chapter, He Keeps a Foothold in Your Life, I explain how playing the ‘Friend...
by NATALIE | Apr 7, 2008 | Emotional Unavailability
Imagine your relationship on a scale of ONE to TEN. Mr Unavailables (emotionally unavailable men) like to keep the relationship in the comfort zone of Magic Number FIVE. His blowing hot and cold is about managing down your expectations of him and the relationship, but...
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