Excerpt From The Dreamer & the Fantasy Relationship On Getting Over Controlling The Uncontrollable

Excerpt From The Dreamer & the Fantasy Relationship On Getting Over Controlling The Uncontrollable

I’ve released my first companion guide to Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl – The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship – and I wanted to share an excerpt from the moving forward section as I see so many readers (fantasy relationship or not)...
You Just Don’t Have That Kind Of Power: You Haven’t ‘Made’ Someone Be Or Do Something

You Just Don’t Have That Kind Of Power: You Haven’t ‘Made’ Someone Be Or Do Something

When you experience problems but are sidetracked with your own issues regarding how you feel about yourself or are clinging hard to beliefs that you’re stuck on, not only do you fail to compute the rather compelling topline data, but how you respond to the...
Why You Shouldn’t Bust Your Boundaries To Give Yourself A ‘Competitive Edge’ In Dating

Why You Shouldn’t Bust Your Boundaries To Give Yourself A ‘Competitive Edge’ In Dating

Over the past few months, I’ve heard from a number of readers who have done all manner of things in the name of ‘winning’ what they feel is a race to ‘get’ a particular person. When asked why they had sex before they really wanted to, or...
Are You Waiting To Be Chosen? Why It’s Time To Put Away Your Choose Me Stick

Are You Waiting To Be Chosen? Why It’s Time To Put Away Your Choose Me Stick

When I listen to people explain their frustrations with dating or how they’re feeling rejected after a possible date didn’t materialise, or not getting past a date or few with someone, what I realise is some of us are waiting to be chosen. In these...
The Truth About Porkies: Are you comfortable with being lied to?

The Truth About Porkies: Are you comfortable with being lied to?

Recently, BR reader Magnolia shared a lengthy quote on lying from which the first line stuck out for me”As soon as there is any kind of deception, stop everything.” (source: Boundaries in Dating) Experience has taught me and so many others, that when...