We must stop caring too much for those who care too little for us

We must stop caring too much for those who care too little for us

by | Boundaries

People who think that they are mighty and powerful and who think that they can force you to oblige their wants and in fact demands even if they are contrary to your own needs etc., and all while encroaching on your rights as a human being, aren’t so powerful and...
We need to talk about “selfish”

We need to talk about “selfish”

by | Boundaries

When we suppress and repress our own feelings, opinions, needs, expectations and desires, we become oversensitised to those of others and develop a pesky habit of taking ownership of their feelings and behaviour. It’s as if in silencing us and being on high alert, we...
Snooping Never Leads To Anything Good

Snooping Never Leads To Anything Good

by | Boundaries

Longtime readers may recall that while pregnant with my first daughter, I got into the hidden camera show ‘Cheaters’. The premise is people who suspect their partners of cheating have them investigated and followed… and then confront them. I know, I know. But I was...