Revisited: How To Avoid Being a Passing Time Candidate – 30 Signs That Somebody Isn’t Interested Or Is Half-Heartedly Interested In You

Revisited: How To Avoid Being a Passing Time Candidate – 30 Signs That Somebody Isn’t Interested Or Is Half-Heartedly Interested In You

  One of my most frequently asked questions is, How do I know whether he/she is interested in me? What often trips us up, isn’t whether they’re interested in us but what they’re actually interested in us for and whether we have a match. Us humans are...

Saying NO doesn’t mean that you’re screwing someone over

Each day I hear from people who agonise over ‘tricky’ decisions such as: Should I accept the offer of being in a casual relationship when I know that I don’t want it / wouldn’t be able to handle it? Should I be the Other Woman/Guy? Should I...
Do we really need to keep screwing around with friendship?

Do we really need to keep screwing around with friendship?

Sometimes I catch myself when I’m about to describe someone as a friend when they’re more of an acquaintance or near close to being a stranger and I correct myself. The mutual relationship between friends has become quite cheap in this day and age when...

Contradictions: I want to date but I don’t want a relationship but I don’t want to date someone who’s casual either

Recently, a few people have asked me for advice on a situation that typically goes as follows: “I’d really like to meet someone for dates / fun / companionship / affection / attention / sex but I’m not looking for a relationship. I like my life right...
You’re Not In Pretty Woman: Do You Believe In The Booty Call ‘Fairy Tale’?

You’re Not In Pretty Woman: Do You Believe In The Booty Call ‘Fairy Tale’?

If you’ve stuck like glue to an unhealthy relationship or devoted your energies to upgrading a one-night stand, booty call, Friends With Benefits or ad-hoc fling into a full time, bonafide committed relationship, it’s safe to say that you very much believe...