Forgiveness isn’t about agreeing with or condoning the other person’s actions
As I continue making peace with my past and recognising younger parts of me that still hurt and remember, I am committed to being self-compassionate and learning from when I’m not. I’m also committed to not letting my past and those in it, rob me of my...Birthday thoughts: 36 things that I’ve learned about life, love and self-esteem
On Sunday I turned 36, which I celebrated with a party on Saturday. As it turned midnight, I was singing Return of the Mack on the karaoke machine (we have a Lucky Voice set which means we can have impromptu karaoke sessions) plus earlier in the evening, one of my...
Getting Blinded By Your Principles
It’s the principle of the matter. Why should they get away with making a mug out of me?It’s the principle! They said that they loved me/would do _______! And I’ll be damned if they get away without delivering. I would never do/say _________ if I...When Someone Bails / Pulls The Slow Fade After You Say That You’re Not Ready To Sleep With Them Yet
While reading yet more tales of They Bailed / Started Pulling The Slow Fade After I Said I Wanted To Take My Time Before Sleeping With Him/Her, it occurred to me that the type of person who goes from super-interested to crickets / unable to be pinned down to a date...
