He broke up with me: Is he an assclown?

He broke up with me: Is he an assclown?

by | Letting Go

There is a tendency when we feel more than a little ill done by for some of the poor choices that we make, to tag a man as an assclown…even when he’s not, and that’s simply because there is a general assumption by women who have a habit of pursuing...

Letting Go of a Relationship That Doesn’t Exist

by | Letting Go

There are two big questions that readers have grappled with recently: How do I let go of the guy that didn’t reciprocate my feelings? How do I let go of the guy that I didn’t actually have a relationship with? In essence, how do you let go of a one-sided...

Mixing Money & Men

by | Dating

Years ago I descended to the depths of fluff brained woman when I dated a guy and ended up loaning him money that I never saw again. More than six years later, despite being very loved up with the boyf and the arrival of my new bambino, it still grates that I got...